I was baptized Methodist. Neither of my parents had a really good reason why they chose that brand of Christianity back in the late 1950s. It must not have been too solid a connection, because when I was about nine years old, they switched to the local Presbyterian church. (In the hotel business, I think they call that "reflagging.") The reason? The people were nicer, and it was the place known as The Village Church, as it was located in the center of our town.
I mean no disrespect to my late mother, especially on this the 27th anniversary of her death, but she was always brand conscious. Frankly the Village Church had a better social brand in the Village of Northbrook. So that's where we went, and where i was confirmed. And it was the last church I was a member of, with the relationship ending in 1974.
Perhaps this "church as brand choice" is partly why I claim no religious affiliation and instead identify as agnostic at best. A much bigger factor is the high level of hypocrisy that seems the be so pervasive in organized religion. Nowhere is that more apparent that the highly selective reading of the Bible as convenient support for things loathed, feared or misunderstood. Throw in the wealth of scientific evidence that is at odds with much of the Old Testament and, unfortunately, the world's best selling book really does belong in the fiction section.
That's not to say religion doesn't serve an important moral and social role. Churches offer support, guidance and fellowship that are genuinely important to some people. Many do great things in their communities, filling the gaps left by underfunded governments and uncaring people. Nevertheless, I just can't buy into the smiting and the water-into-wine and the did-it-in-seven-days creationism explanation. It's mostly, to me, a bunch of bull dukey.
Still, the number of people going to church regularly, and the number of people who say that religion is an important part of their lives, remains reasonably steady over the past decade. And that's great. I mean, honestly, if people can find strength from going to church, more power to them. For me, I don't feel the need the go to a church and rely on an interpretation of an interpretation of an interpretation of a holy book to help me out. I consider myself a spiritual person without the need for all the claptrap, hypocrisy, branded denigration of others not in the sect, and sanctimonious judgment of others.
Seems that I am not alone. Organized religion is losing it's relevance among Americans, according to Gallup...
PRINCETON, NJ -- Two-thirds of U.S. adults today perceive that the
influence of religion in American life is waning, while just 27%
believe it is rising. This represents a sharp decline in the image of
religion compared with only three years ago, when 50% thought its
influence was on an upswing, and marks one of the weakest readings on
the influence of religion in Gallup's five-decade history of asking the
question.
To inject politics...
Given this historical context, it is possible that the recent decline
in perceptions that religion is increasing in influence is partially a
result of the decline of Republican political strength throughout
President George W. Bush's second term, a trend that was punctuated by
the election of Democrat Barack Obama last month.
Here, I think that religious fundamentalists, who are every bit as extreme in their views as the Muslim extremists they condemn, are partially at fault. To say that we are a nation founded on Christ, which is about as wrong as possible, doesn't sit too well with people who find religious tolerance to be a valuable social asset. Politicking from the pulpit and requiring religious litmus tests of candidates and judicial appointees defies our Constitutional foundation. Throw in the rank hypocrisy of sex scandals and the way the Republican Party has played Christian fundamentalists for suckers, and you don't have to look much further to understand why both the Republican party and religion itself are falling in perceived influence among U.S. citizens.
So here I sit, on Christmas, seemingly panning Christianity. But that's not it at all. I think that the vast majority of people who identify as Christian follow the basic teachings of Christ. They try to be good people. They look to be kind and helpful to those in need. They care about their neighbors. It's only when leaders, both political and religious, decide to marshal their followers for motivations that aren't all that Christ-like do things go astray. That's how we end up sadly witnessing poor people voting against things most potentially of benefit to... poor people. It's why Congress passes a health care bill that first and foremost looks after big for-profit insurance companies. It's why people will part with money to smooth talking preachers yet will continue to vote down bond issues to fund new school buildings or materials.
Mine is a minority view, to be sure. But I think we'd be a lot better off if people were a lot less religious and a lot more spiritual. One's organized. The other is personal. I like to think for myself, so I'll continue to opt for the latter.
That said, Merry Christmas. Most people have moved it at least half-way to a secular celebration anyway, and I'm all for a good celebration.